DEARDLY BRETHREN Grace be unto you that visited this Receive salvation from our Lord Jesus Christ (AMEN); dearly beloved brothers/sisters i wanna tell you that there's a grace that our Lord Jesus proved for us through his significance and christ's bearing of the cross, this story of redemption will never be meaningful and complete without the grim event that shows Jesus, His suffering, His bearing of the Cross, His crucifixion and death for humanity. (john 19:16);
THE TRAGEDY OF ASSUMPTION, BE CAREFUL BRETHREN_*
*THE TRAGEDY OF ASSUMPTION, BE CAREFUL BRETHREN_*
Few months ago, I was invited to a prayer programme at Lagos as a guest revivalist.
When I entered the auditorium, imean the church, I saw some pastors i knew sitting in one corner. I went up to them and started to greet them one after the other.
I shook their hands, even with the ones I didn't know until I got to one pastor with prophet's garment. I didn't know him and when I extended my hand, he ignored it. After few seconds, I withdrew my hand. All my thought was, "what arrant nonsense?" I kept asking the question from my self.
I felt very embarrassed and angry. Embarrassed for myself and angry at the man.
What was he feeling like, I thought. All those other pastors accepted my greeting, older pastors even. And to my knowledge, I hadn't done anything wrong. I gave him a very scornful look, greeted the remaining pastors and went to take a seat.
Now, even after I sat down, I was still pissed. I kept stealing glances at the pastor to see how he would react to other people.
Then I saw it... Amazingly he was blind!!!
His eyes were open, but he couldn't see at all! The other pastors who came to greet him had to touch him first, then take his hand if they wanted to shake hands with him.
To my great surprise is my hidden protege who really appreciates my ministry and ministrations. I never knew he came purposely because his wife informed him that "Pastor Sam Olatunde would be the guest revivalist for this year anniversary," in fact, he was waiting on the altar to hear someone bemoan my name so as to stand and hug me.
When I heard this, my embarrassment level tripled. In addition to that, I felt stupid, very stupid. I was still angry, just angry at myself. I felt like that till I left the altar to the pulpit. In fact, I could not say a word to him until I got to the pulpit and my message for that Sunday changed from *_RECOVERY_* to *_DANGER OF ASSUMPTION_*
©️*Assumption kills like poison*. Any small thing, we assume, thinking others are doing what we think not what we validate by personal eye witness.
©️Someone doesn't pick our calls, we assume he or she is avoiding us or is up to something.
©️Someone doesn't give us the money we asked for, we assume he or she is stingy and wicked...
©️Someone doesn't call, hangout or visit you as he/she usually does. We assume they are no longer caring or intimate again, then comes the anger and repulsive attitude towards them.
©️ We never care to know and understand that issues of life can set in to choke them. Also that, the issues of life are diverse in nature, not the same.
©️Once we are turned or rejected, we start assuming. Power of verification of issues is more important and significant for more connection with heathy people to get to the top.
©️We don't put into consideration what the other party might be going through or experiencing. Always have it at the back of your mind that, other people might not be in pleasant mood like you.
©️The guy that promised you money might get into a financial situation a day before he's supposed to give you the money.
✓The person that didn't pick your call was probably in a meeting or busy at that moment, or even sleeping. He might not have been in a position to pick when your called.
✓We just assume instead because it’s easier and it tends to make us the good guys.
✓Give someone benefit of the doubt, make an excuse for that person.
It's not always as it seems in your mind and head.
*Maintain relationships with people* What you RESPECT will COME towards you and what you don't RESPECT will RUN away from you.
✓It is childish and immature to pick offence at every provocation or perceived wrongness and then start keeping grudges as a result.
Grow above it.
✓Someone did not invite you for their wedding, you pick offence with them.
✓Someone didn't wish you happy birthday, you pick offence with the person
✓They didn't like your Facebook post, you pick offence.
✓They didn't support you in a disagreement you had with someone, you pick offence with them.
✓They are junior and they have the audacity to talk or oppose your opinion. You pick offence with them.
✓They said No to your request, you pick offence and malice starts.
✓You asked them for money, they said they didn't have it, you pick offence with them.
✓You are even keeping a record of people who brought gifts to your wedding, those who blessed you because you helped them, you have the list of those who give you gifts or money always among your junior colleague, so you can know who to pick offence with.
*_NOTE_*:
@Everyone has their battles you are not aware of.
@Those who you need help from are also looking for help.
@Not everything is personal and intentional
@Not everyone hates you.
@ Sometimes people are just caught up with their own lives, struggles, human weaknesses and limitations.
@Learn how to manage being disappointed by people and still be on talking terms with them. It will save you a lot of UNNECESSARY grudges and save you some *FRIENDSHIPS* you may need in Future.
*Grow above offences, Grow with offences, Grow ignoring offences and never allow offences to hurt you.
BELIEVE ON THE WORD OF CHRIST JESUS
Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that heareth my word, and believeth on him that sent me, hath everlasting life, and shall not come into condemnation; but is passed from death unto life. Verily, verily, I say unto you, The hour is coming, and now is, when the dead shall hear the voice of the Son of God: and they that hear shall live. For as the Father hath life in himself; so hath he given to the Son to have life in himself; and hath given him authority to execute judgment also, because he is the Son of man. Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming, in the which all that are in the graves shall hear his voice, and shall come forth; they that have done good, unto the resurrection of life; and they that have done evil, unto the resurrection of damnation.
John 5:24-29 KJV
https://bible.com/bible/1/jhn.5.24-29.KJV
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